I have a very similar issue I have been with the same guy since I was 14 years I moved away for a year and came back and we got back together (by the way im 18 now) I guess I should start from the begining since its 1 of the reasons I am having doubt about him we started messing around in the 9th grade problem was he had a girlfriend that cheated on him so he just kinda used me for pay back and I took the opportunity becuz I was fallin in love with him well after a few months of creeping he finally told her and he broke up I remember it like it was yesterday he ran out of my house to tell her he had been cheating and when he came back he looked happy almost relieved so I thought now we can finally be together I didn't jump on the subject rite at that minute I gave it a few days and then I asked him so we can be together now and (this is the part that gives me doubts) he looks me straight in the eye and says I will never go out with u but a few weeks later he asked me out after 2 years sophomore year in high school I moved away and I returned after a year and a half to hear many different stories one of which being that he asked his/my best friend out 4 times and she seems to bring it up every chance she gets the worst thing about high school sweethearts is all our friends are mutual. Now him and i live together and she is always over our house she stays for days at a time without even going home to shower and change I feel like they had a sexual relationship every time she is around(even though they both deny this) becuz his vibes just change and he no longer is sexually interested in me even when I offer to give him a bj he declines and says he is tired or he has a headache (isn't that supposed to be the womens excuse) he rejects me for about 2 days after she leaves the house then he will get horny and initiate sex but as soon as she comes over for another weekend its the same cycle I love him and I plan to marry him in the fall I just don't understand what he is thinking its very frustrating please help
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I have a very similar issue I have been with the same guy since I was 14 years I moved away for a year and came back and we got back together (by the way im 18 now) I guess I should start from the begining since its 1 of the reasons I am having doubt about him we started messing around in the 9th grade problem was he had a girlfriend that cheated on him so he just kinda used me for pay back and I took the opportunity becuz I was fallin in love with him well after a few months of creeping he finally told her and he broke up I remember it like it was yesterday he ran out of my house to tell her he had been cheating and when he came back he looked happy almost relieved so I thought now we can finally be together I didn't jump on the subject rite at that minute I gave it a few days and then I asked him so we can be together now and (this is the part that gives me doubts) he looks me straight in the eye and says I will never go out with u but a few weeks later he asked me out after 2 years sophomore year in high school I moved away and I returned after a year and a half to hear many different stories one of which being that he asked his/my best friend out 4 times and she seems to bring it up every chance she gets the worst thing about high school sweethearts is all our friends are mutual. Now him and i live together and she is always over our house she stays for days at a time without even going home to shower and change I feel like they had a sexual relationship every time she is around(even though they both deny this) becuz his vibes just change and he no longer is sexually interested in me even when I offer to give him a bj he declines and says he is tired or he has a headache (isn't that supposed to be the womens excuse) he rejects me for about 2 days after she leaves the house then he will get horny and initiate sex but as soon as she comes over for another weekend its the same cycle I love him and I plan to marry him in the fall I just don't understand what he is thinking its very frustrating please help
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