I have no advice! I am reading for a bit of it myself. My husband and I have been together for almost 5 and a half years, married nearly 2. He had been engaged before and it was a very ugly thing, he had gotten over that and had told me that he didn't want to give me a ring because that would cut our sex in half... Guess what it did, HE stopped wanting to have sex with me as often... I could deal with a couple times a week. Then he had joked about sex halving again when we were going to be married... that too happened, usually once every 1 to 2 weeks! Again HIM, he was constantly tired and stressed out, I tried talking to him, he would yell and say "I will try" and nothing would change other than maybe we would have sex that night or the next. Now he tells me that it is because he is not feeling masculine after losing his job and he is stressed about how the bills are going to get paid... WHICH is BS because he doesn't pay them, I do, and he can go and spend whatever he wants on anything he wants!!! Now we are down to once every month, 2 -3 weeks if I am lucky! I feel like I am missing out on A LOT he got to be a reckless teen and got to run around and drink and party in his 20s... he is now 32 and I am 24 and I am not even getting sex once a week with my freakin' husband! I sorta feel like it was a huge false advertisement. I have been getting more and more depressed over it all.
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I have no advice! I am reading for a bit of it myself. My husband and I have been together for almost 5 and a half years, married nearly 2. He had been engaged before and it was a very ugly thing, he had gotten over that and had told me that he didn't want to give me a ring because that would cut our sex in half... Guess what it did, HE stopped wanting to have sex with me as often... I could deal with a couple times a week. Then he had joked about sex halving again when we were going to be married... that too happened, usually once every 1 to 2 weeks! Again HIM, he was constantly tired and stressed out, I tried talking to him, he would yell and say "I will try" and nothing would change other than maybe we would have sex that night or the next. Now he tells me that it is because he is not feeling masculine after losing his job and he is stressed about how the bills are going to get paid... WHICH is BS because he doesn't pay them, I do, and he can go and spend whatever he wants on anything he wants!!! Now we are down to once every month, 2 -3 weeks if I am lucky! I feel like I am missing out on A LOT he got to be a reckless teen and got to run around and drink and party in his 20s... he is now 32 and I am 24 and I am not even getting sex once a week with my freakin' husband! I sorta feel like it was a huge false advertisement. I have been getting more and more depressed over it all.
June 24, 2009 - 1:19pmThis Comment
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