I've been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months. He's 39 and I'm 45. After the first 2 months, he started taking a blood pressure pill that he says has killed his libido. However, I know he masturbates on a daily basis. For the past 4 months I have had to initiate any fondling, touching and when I bring over a gel or cream to get him in the mood, he calls me perverted.....This lack of sex is killing my esteem even though he says it's not me. He claims he will talk to his m.d. next month, but I'm wondering why the hell he hasn't gotten on the phone yet! I don't want to appear selfish so I try not to bring it up all the time. However, I am getting more and more frustrated and utterly unsatisfied. He is a wonderful guy and I know he's embarassed by the whole thing, but sex is an important part of a relationship for me. What to do? Help!
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I've been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months. He's 39 and I'm 45. After the first 2 months, he started taking a blood pressure pill that he says has killed his libido. However, I know he masturbates on a daily basis. For the past 4 months I have had to initiate any fondling, touching and when I bring over a gel or cream to get him in the mood, he calls me perverted.....This lack of sex is killing my esteem even though he says it's not me. He claims he will talk to his m.d. next month, but I'm wondering why the hell he hasn't gotten on the phone yet! I don't want to appear selfish so I try not to bring it up all the time. However, I am getting more and more frustrated and utterly unsatisfied. He is a wonderful guy and I know he's embarassed by the whole thing, but sex is an important part of a relationship for me. What to do? Help!
June 14, 2009 - 4:15pmThis Comment
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