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I'm glad everyone gave out the medical opinion of things instead of being straight up with the answer. Their is absolutely nothing wrong with watching pornography or acting it out. If their is one thing you learn about pornography is that it isnt routine as most relationships have become. In the adult industry they spend years trying to bring new ideas and new places into the bedroom. The confidence of the star and the new experience for us to try. We didnt always learn from just having sex how to have good sex. Their is a difference. The sex can be as good as it wants to be but it can always be in the bedroom or you can move around the house or go into public or private places. Most men are orally educated. I honestly believe if women would put more attention into oral sex and actually enjoying it. Their relationship would be 100 times better. It is nothing worse than a guy sitting there wanting to have a woman all over him but the particular woman is so self conscious to not give them oral pleasure. Most women turn a guy off by saying I dont want to do that all the time, but the other woman ever time that they see them is willing and ready. They normally tell a guy that they want how much they enjoy doing it. The best answer is. If you have so much of a problem in the bedroom. How about adding 50 percent more oral to the sexual diet. When a man you love walks through the door. How about doing it than. How about in the car. How about in the movies. How about as soon as he is in the bedroom or shower. Dont do it like its a obligation but do it as if you love each inch and taste of him because that is what you love. It is better relationship 100 percent for sexless people that complain. It doesnt mean do it once a day. Maybe if you are doing it once a week how about adding 4 times a day to it. Most men do want to make love, but sometimes want to get wild and freaky. I may not be able to use the word that most men want on a regular base, but also those men become better love makers also. When sex feels like you can do anything and everything with the one that you love. It is truley enjoyable, but when both partners are self concious of trying new things or being wild than it turns on or both off. I'm sorry to say but I believe the woman man did cheat on her. The person who the man was cheating with relationship didnt work out. In turn he had a back up plan but the next time the relationship becomes sexless than its because you should have spent more time being his woman and his other woman than just being his wife. A man wants a lady in public and a freak in bed consistantly and not half way. If you are just half way than expect for him not to be all the way with you. If you love getting oral sex than you should love giving it as much also. If you think about sex or oral sex. You should approach him with not just talk but with action. If your man gets to the point he is worried about pulling his penis out because their maybe no action than you will have problems in the relationship. When your man pulls out his penis. He is wanting you to know what to do as well as you want him to know what to do when you pull your virgina out. Trust and believe most of these relationships went 20 percent oral to 80 percent just routine sex. Switch the roles and your man wont want to cheat or be tired at work. What man wouldnt want to come home knowing their is a hot woman behind the door just waiting to please him orally. He would come home everyday. Too bad women forgot that somewhere when they wasnt watching pornography.

June 1, 2009 - 6:36pm

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