Wow, I can't believe so many women are dealing with this problem! It definitely makes me feel better. I've been seeing my boyfriend for 10 months, like many of you ladies, we had sex all the time for the first 4 or 5 months (from 1-2 times a day up to 4 or 5). In fact, he told me several times how satisfied he was, and that out of all his partners he felt that he was most sexually compatible with me. During that conversation he mentioned how he and his ex would rarely have sex and that he thinks sex is an integral part of a relationship (something we agree on). Now we have sex once a week maybe, he never initiates it and when I do it seems that he's just doing it because I want to. This is wrecking my confidence and making me wonder if this relationship is going anywhere at all.