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I am so glad I am not alone. My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years. The first 6 months the sex was great and I never let it get any less on my end. I never said no to him and I always tried to do new exciting things. Every time I talk to him about being spontaneous he brushes it off. Like other posts I have read, he'll make a comment about wanting it later but then ignores any advances. Also like other posts..when I ask about it he obviously says nothing is wrong. He doesn't seem to care about my needs at all and for some reason he seems to prefer mastrubating over sex. He seems lazy and disinterested all the time. He comes up with so many excuses..but I know it's not the real reason "I'm tired" is the most common.. He smokes pot a lot too..which I think could be partof it.. but he always has smoked.. and in the beginning we had no issue... I'm just so confused. I don't want to be in a relationships where I don't have sex with someone I'm supposed to be in love with. It's driving me crazy...I had the opposite problem with my ex..What do I do? I've never felt so lost before... It's making me feel really bad about myself...and my relationship.. Help :(