I understand what you are going through. I do the same for my boyfriend. He use to love to go down on me and I also keep myself bald for him because I know he likes that. I rather have hair down there but I do this to please him. I give him BJ all of the time I give him everything he wants and when I want him to please me He will not do it. It hurts me so much. I try to let him know how it makes me feel but we always ending up fighting I can not go through this much longer. I do not know what to do. I have a very high sexual drive . I love him very much but it is not fair that he is not trying to satisfy me. I am thinking about straying and I really do not want to do this but I am so tired of being so frustrated.