Glad I'm not the only one with this problem! My SO and I have been together for a little over 3 years. The first time we had sex he let me seduce him in my backyard.. Then every night he would sleep/cuddle with me in my bed and we would always end up having sex. But, as our relationship progressed he started holding sex from me and giving it 4 times a week, 2 times, and now its like 2-3 times a month!
I am a very sexual person and I express my feelings to him about this subject all the time. How it hurts me and it makes me feel unwanted/unloved and like I'm 'just there'. Sex is apart of love, its showing each other how much love you have for them.
We have a 15month old son and a baby on the way (still pretty early. Not quite showing yet) and I just love him so much.
I need him to bring out the freak like my ex bf did. My SO is just close minded and would rather get high and play on his phone...
This makes me feel like a piece of shit.
My ex bf was 13 years older then me and we had sex sometimes 4x a day! My SO is 5 years older then me and he acts like a grandpa...
Don't get me wrong I've tried dressing up getting new toys to maybe that will excite him, but nothing. I need a sex life. My blood is boiling and masturbation is getting old