I thought i was the only one with this issue. We have been living together for almost two years and been together a little over 3 and it went from everyday to maybe 10 times this entire year (2012) and it is halfway thru. I have asked him why and there is no reason only that he has stress and it is not on his mind but he will watch porn everyday. Before that would be part of our foreplay and now I can't even initiate a bj without him pushing me away. I have gain like 15 lbs since we stopped having sex and it just makes me feels depressed. Started working out again to get back to my best shape possible. Tried spicing it up, tried role playing, tried everything i could think of. I have toys and tired of playing alone. Maybe at this point a booty call or just leaving the relationship would be the solution. I care about him but i have a right to have a sex life. I know there are plenty of fish out there but can someone answer the million dollar question ... Why is the sex gone???