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I have the same problem. I have been with my man for 12 years. We never got married, and we have an 8 year old and I had a child in my previous relationship. We have been through a lot. A lot of bumps that bring us to that point that we have almost given up. But the kids are important, and splitting a family would be much more strenuous than what we go through. We don't sleep in the same bed. We haven't for years. I decided way back I didn't think I could sleep with him, when he snores. I drift off and the next thing I know it wakes me up again.
We are not close anymore. I can't bring up problems with out him getting agitated and he yells at me. I have never cheated, because I want to do what is right. I think I don't love him anymore, but the last time we were about to break it off, my kids were worried and it was effecting them. So, for now I stay. I want out so bad! If we could reconnect, then I would feel like it is working. But this long, letting sex and communication slip, makes me feel like it is over. I am 32 and I don't want my life to be like this. =(