Someone please help! I am engaged for 7months now to my best friend. I love him and care for him very much. He is still really sweet and does sweet things for me, but the sex is gone! I have tried everything! And the maybe once a month that we do have sex, I never finish. he acts like its such a task, but its not like im making him do all the work in bed! He tells me he loves me, I know he isnt cheating, and he tells me how beautiful and sexy I am, but whenever I try to seduce him or initiate sex, he blows me off with excuses. "im tired," "im too full." What the hell kind of excuse is "im too full"!? i cant help but feel like its my fault, maybe im too horny. i have being a begger, but im so lost! and the duration is getting shorter too. it wasnt like this when we started being intamite with eachother. but i feel like he doesnt want me anymore and everytime i bring it up he just gives me "im tired". im sorry but i work 30hrs a week, go to school full time to major in chemirty and im trying to plan a wedding, that is a terrible excuse. the one day off i spend cleaning our place or studying. No sex is killing me! he acts like im a horn-dog, but thats not it. sex helps feel connected to him. this is lowering my self esteem and i know i am a sexy woman. its not right, what do i do!!!!!
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Someone please help! I am engaged for 7months now to my best friend. I love him and care for him very much. He is still really sweet and does sweet things for me, but the sex is gone! I have tried everything! And the maybe once a month that we do have sex, I never finish. he acts like its such a task, but its not like im making him do all the work in bed! He tells me he loves me, I know he isnt cheating, and he tells me how beautiful and sexy I am, but whenever I try to seduce him or initiate sex, he blows me off with excuses. "im tired," "im too full." What the hell kind of excuse is "im too full"!? i cant help but feel like its my fault, maybe im too horny. i have being a begger, but im so lost! and the duration is getting shorter too. it wasnt like this when we started being intamite with eachother. but i feel like he doesnt want me anymore and everytime i bring it up he just gives me "im tired". im sorry but i work 30hrs a week, go to school full time to major in chemirty and im trying to plan a wedding, that is a terrible excuse. the one day off i spend cleaning our place or studying. No sex is killing me! he acts like im a horn-dog, but thats not it. sex helps feel connected to him. this is lowering my self esteem and i know i am a sexy woman. its not right, what do i do!!!!!
February 15, 2012 - 10:26pmThis Comment
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