I'm sorry you're in such an unhappy relationship. Your story was a bit confusing at times because you talk about how cool it is that he brags to his friends and then you jump to how unsatisfied you are in sex. Then you start saying that you know he loves you but you admit that he has tried to get another woman to move with him because he misses her and that he shuts you off...It almost sounds like you are combining what you wish was really true with the actual reality.
If he isn't interested in sex, don't pursue it. There is no reason why you should be begging to give a man a blow job when he doesn't want one. Let him ask for it every now and again-- maybe he's just not that into it anymore because he can get it at the drop of a hat. As far as you being pleased, you shouldn't please a man before you are pleased-- because once men are done, they're done. You can start with foreplay, but don't finish with him before getting started on you.
In all honesty, I think there may be a bigger picture here. You don't seem to love him and I'm not sure he loves you. So, figure this out before, like you said, you end up staying in an unsatisfying relationship.
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Dear Anonymous,
I'm sorry you're in such an unhappy relationship. Your story was a bit confusing at times because you talk about how cool it is that he brags to his friends and then you jump to how unsatisfied you are in sex. Then you start saying that you know he loves you but you admit that he has tried to get another woman to move with him because he misses her and that he shuts you off...It almost sounds like you are combining what you wish was really true with the actual reality.
If he isn't interested in sex, don't pursue it. There is no reason why you should be begging to give a man a blow job when he doesn't want one. Let him ask for it every now and again-- maybe he's just not that into it anymore because he can get it at the drop of a hat. As far as you being pleased, you shouldn't please a man before you are pleased-- because once men are done, they're done. You can start with foreplay, but don't finish with him before getting started on you.
In all honesty, I think there may be a bigger picture here. You don't seem to love him and I'm not sure he loves you. So, figure this out before, like you said, you end up staying in an unsatisfying relationship.
-Rosa
December 6, 2011 - 5:04amThis Comment
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