I have no trouble meeting/'finding' men. But alot of trouble retaining them. Once they've seen what I have, the disinterest sets in pretty quickly. These have, in some instances, been otherwise great guys. I guess you need to imagine the situation reversed- would you be content to have a relationship with a *guy* with a tuberous disorder? (Men *do* have this deformity, BTW)
It sounds a bit harsh, but I think that unless a guy has a specific fetish for this variation of anatomy, that it will be very difficult to find someone. I also think the effect that tuberous breasts have on self esteem really can be 'shattering', and can really affect your confidence as a woman. It certainly has mine.
I'm opting for surgical correction. I want to get on with my life, and the last 20 years worth of attempts at self acceptance have been in vain.
I wish you all the very best on your journey.
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I have no trouble meeting/'finding' men. But alot of trouble retaining them. Once they've seen what I have, the disinterest sets in pretty quickly. These have, in some instances, been otherwise great guys. I guess you need to imagine the situation reversed- would you be content to have a relationship with a *guy* with a tuberous disorder? (Men *do* have this deformity, BTW)
February 28, 2011 - 7:38pmIt sounds a bit harsh, but I think that unless a guy has a specific fetish for this variation of anatomy, that it will be very difficult to find someone. I also think the effect that tuberous breasts have on self esteem really can be 'shattering', and can really affect your confidence as a woman. It certainly has mine.
I'm opting for surgical correction. I want to get on with my life, and the last 20 years worth of attempts at self acceptance have been in vain.
I wish you all the very best on your journey.
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