I'm in the same boat like everyone else here. Except my husband hasn't had sex with me for almost 30 years. I don't really know why we stayed together. He dosen't kiss me,hold hands or touch me in any way, I wanted kids and he told me that was not going to happen. For years I've been depressed and lonely. He refuses to help himself, he thinks everything is ok. He prefers to be just left alone and don't bother him. I think hes uncaring, cruel, and pig headed. A word to the wise and all of you get help, communicate, get your love problem straightened out and don't ruin your entire life.