I am sorry to all that are going through this feeling. I also am going through the same thing. My hubby to be does show any sign of him wanting sex. But when we go out he checks out every girl in sight. I try to ignore now because it causes a big fight. I find it rude but he doesn't seem to understand. I think we have had sex 3 times since October. And thats only has been when we were both drunk. And not even then did we really have sex. I am 35 and he is 30.
I have not brought it up but it does make me fell less and less about myself. The one thing that gets me is, when I leave town and return. I sometime find shirts of cum in it. So I know he has been masturbating but if he is doing this and not with me? It just confuses me and I feel very hurtful from it. I have address this but he gets in a standoff mood. I just do not understand.