This is the first time I have been to this site too. I'm 39 and have been married for just a few months. Before I got married, my husband and I lived 6 hours apart. We would visit each other on weekends, and might have sex once during our weekend visits. I figured it was due to the long drive and just being tired. We dated for a year and then I moved in with him... hoping that it would get better. It basically didn't. I tried to talk with him about my feelings, but he said that he was adjusting to the change of me moving in. He had been alone for 6 six years and I have a teen daughter. I'm a counselor and really thought that this might be the case - but I have been quite disturbed with what I recently found on his computer. He has hard core porn sites with women that do NOT look like me - very large breasted women and sites that show "teen" (18 year olds) porn. After our talk, it really didn't get any better. We get along in every other aspect, but I have found myself needed to satisfy my own sexual urges... something that I did when I was alone. When we do have sex, I cannot have an orgasm because I am just so hurt/sensitive that I really cannot enjoy it. I'm debating on wether I can continue to live like this for ever.
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This is the first time I have been to this site too. I'm 39 and have been married for just a few months. Before I got married, my husband and I lived 6 hours apart. We would visit each other on weekends, and might have sex once during our weekend visits. I figured it was due to the long drive and just being tired. We dated for a year and then I moved in with him... hoping that it would get better. It basically didn't. I tried to talk with him about my feelings, but he said that he was adjusting to the change of me moving in. He had been alone for 6 six years and I have a teen daughter. I'm a counselor and really thought that this might be the case - but I have been quite disturbed with what I recently found on his computer. He has hard core porn sites with women that do NOT look like me - very large breasted women and sites that show "teen" (18 year olds) porn. After our talk, it really didn't get any better. We get along in every other aspect, but I have found myself needed to satisfy my own sexual urges... something that I did when I was alone. When we do have sex, I cannot have an orgasm because I am just so hurt/sensitive that I really cannot enjoy it. I'm debating on wether I can continue to live like this for ever.
November 29, 2010 - 5:45pmThis Comment
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