Thanks for your comments. Maybe I missed it somewhere in your posts, but have you tried talking with him about your sexual challenges? Do you think he may have a physical/medical problem that's prohibiting him from being intimate? It is not easy when you are merely co-existing. What changed? I understand how you would feel responsible for having him move to be with you. In that regard, have you done your due diligence to try to get to the bottom of why things are how they are now. I'm assuming things weren't always this way. Are you intimate in other ways? Do you date? I agree sexual compatibility can be a deal breaker. But before you decide the relationship has to end, have you discussed the issue with him?