Wow anon 30 years. It is so sad that this is going for so long. I am 25 and my husband of almost 3 years is into porn too. When I confronted him, at first, he denied. Even though I couldnt prove it, I knew it. He ended up admiting it and also promised not to do it again. That was about 3 months back and there is no much of a difference in our sex life. But how do I know if he is keeping up his promise of not using porn to satisfy himself?? I dont know how to check in the computer, I dont know a lot about computers.
Honestly, I think that he might still be doing it. That is one bad habit that must be hard to break. My hopes are that he stopped that back when he told me he would. But if he did stop, why he still rejects me so often?? I have asked him a couple of time and he said that he is not doing porn anymore. I NEED to know if he did stop or not. These are the reasons why I need to know: if he is still into porn, I need to know so we can both fight that and build up a rightous and healthy sex life, I want to find out if he is being honest when he says that he stopped, I need to know if he is an honest man/husband, I need to know if he would come to me for support if he is having trouble quitting, I need to know because if it is not due to porn, then why is he rejecting me?
For me it has been almost three years and I feel like I cant take it anymore. I really admire you Anonimous for putting through this for so long. I hope that for you, all that effort will pay off and he will quit that habit and choose you instead.
For me I wish the same. I love my husband and I am willing to work things out if he is willing to make porn part of his past. I want to be right next to him, very tight, and never separate. But I need to know if he is still into porn or not. I he is, I need to know if he is willing to give it put for me, for him, for our marriage. If he is not willing to give it up, I rather go my own way.
I heard before that about t 30% of all divorces are caused by pornography. I dont want this to be my case. It is sad but this whole thing has to do a lot with trust which in my opinion is key to a good marriage. I want us to start trusting each other and make our marriange strong. I want to be there for him, the rest of my life. I just need him, to be mine as well or at least he needs to try and show that he still cares. (caring not by saying he will change but by doing something about it)
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Wow anon 30 years. It is so sad that this is going for so long. I am 25 and my husband of almost 3 years is into porn too. When I confronted him, at first, he denied. Even though I couldnt prove it, I knew it. He ended up admiting it and also promised not to do it again. That was about 3 months back and there is no much of a difference in our sex life. But how do I know if he is keeping up his promise of not using porn to satisfy himself?? I dont know how to check in the computer, I dont know a lot about computers.
October 9, 2010 - 9:44pmHonestly, I think that he might still be doing it. That is one bad habit that must be hard to break. My hopes are that he stopped that back when he told me he would. But if he did stop, why he still rejects me so often?? I have asked him a couple of time and he said that he is not doing porn anymore. I NEED to know if he did stop or not. These are the reasons why I need to know: if he is still into porn, I need to know so we can both fight that and build up a rightous and healthy sex life, I want to find out if he is being honest when he says that he stopped, I need to know if he is an honest man/husband, I need to know if he would come to me for support if he is having trouble quitting, I need to know because if it is not due to porn, then why is he rejecting me?
For me it has been almost three years and I feel like I cant take it anymore. I really admire you Anonimous for putting through this for so long. I hope that for you, all that effort will pay off and he will quit that habit and choose you instead.
For me I wish the same. I love my husband and I am willing to work things out if he is willing to make porn part of his past. I want to be right next to him, very tight, and never separate. But I need to know if he is still into porn or not. I he is, I need to know if he is willing to give it put for me, for him, for our marriage. If he is not willing to give it up, I rather go my own way.
I heard before that about t 30% of all divorces are caused by pornography. I dont want this to be my case. It is sad but this whole thing has to do a lot with trust which in my opinion is key to a good marriage. I want us to start trusting each other and make our marriange strong. I want to be there for him, the rest of my life. I just need him, to be mine as well or at least he needs to try and show that he still cares. (caring not by saying he will change but by doing something about it)
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