To elejuene---My husband says the same thing--"I don't think sex is that important in a marriage"--What?!!!!! Are you kidding me?!! I feel it is very important! It is how we show our feelings, love and emotion towards eachother. What the hell is wrong with these men?! I am completely on the same page as you are -as far as- not even wanting to be with him anymore after 6 yrs of little sex and rejections. It's like whats the point-oh so we have sex for 10 minutes and hey meet back up with you in 3 months!!! How romantic! I am so sad that I have a roommate for my lover-so sad and lonely-I hate this! I want to move on but we have 2 children and I hate divorced familes but I don't know how much longer I can take this-so hard..... :( I am starting to reconnect via internet with an old fling which is only magnifying this problem. I know it's not right but I am starving for some kind of emotional connection.