One good thing about reading these blogs is I am not alone. I am 33 yrs old and have been married 6 years. My husband and I have two beautiful children and over all my husband is a good man. We dated and were engaged a total of almost 2 years before we Wed and the passion and romance was hot, exciting and often. It was within a month after getting married that everything changed. We never had sex unless I made the first move and eventually he started to push me away. Then it went to 1 a month for a few years and now we are working up to 3 months with nothing. He never touches me :( It is so lonely...... We have discussed this topic many of times and it always causes a fight. I have often wondered if he was cheating(because knowing his sex life before we married)or maybe a bigger issue he was dealing with, like if he is gay. I just want to know so I know what I can do-like move on or help him. He is so hard to read- I often say he's like being married to a rock. I don't want a divorce for the sake of the kids, but I am not sure how much longer I can handle this. I am starting to reconnect with an old fling over the internet and the temptations are tempting to say the least. I have never cheated on anyone before and this is really not the way I like to handle things or myself-but I am starting to feel desperate. What to do? What to do?
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One good thing about reading these blogs is I am not alone. I am 33 yrs old and have been married 6 years. My husband and I have two beautiful children and over all my husband is a good man. We dated and were engaged a total of almost 2 years before we Wed and the passion and romance was hot, exciting and often. It was within a month after getting married that everything changed. We never had sex unless I made the first move and eventually he started to push me away. Then it went to 1 a month for a few years and now we are working up to 3 months with nothing. He never touches me :( It is so lonely...... We have discussed this topic many of times and it always causes a fight. I have often wondered if he was cheating(because knowing his sex life before we married)or maybe a bigger issue he was dealing with, like if he is gay. I just want to know so I know what I can do-like move on or help him. He is so hard to read- I often say he's like being married to a rock. I don't want a divorce for the sake of the kids, but I am not sure how much longer I can handle this. I am starting to reconnect with an old fling over the internet and the temptations are tempting to say the least. I have never cheated on anyone before and this is really not the way I like to handle things or myself-but I am starting to feel desperate. What to do? What to do?
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