Facebook Pixel

Comment Reply

EmpowHER Guest
Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Sweety, you need to stop wanting sex so badly. You're with a man who doesn't have a very high sex drive and he might not like sex as much as you do. He's been through TWO marriages you say, so that means he's had two other women that he's slept with over and over again. It might just get boring to him.

Right now I am in Canada with my boyfriend and because I don't have free health care, we have to be very careful with sex. We use an ovulation calendar, because he hates condoms and we only get to have sex for 4 maybe 5 days the most a month. And you know what?

I am perfectly happy!!!
Look, when a man is sleeping with a woman everyday, it's because he wants her for sex, not because he wants her to love and to share a life with. You have to stop putting love and sex together. All women do it! It's a bad little habit that you should just totally rid yourself of. I used to cry myself to sleep every night, thinking that I was hideous and fat and worthless.

Well after I stopped worrying and after I stopped bringing it up and when I started LIVING my life and letting go of all the insecurities, that's when the problem was gone.
Even if we can't do it EVERY SINGLE NIGHT he's driven mad by the time that we can have sex comes!! So maybe once a month, or once every few weeks is better.

Let me tell you, when you haven't done it in a while and then you get it on, it feels SO MUCH MORE AMAZING. So stop looking at it as a negative thing and let it go. Men are attracted to confidence, remember that! We all need to remember that. You don't have to have the body of a goddess, he wouldn't be with you if he didn't LOVE you.

I hope this helps :)

July 9, 2010 - 10:52pm

Reply

Image CAPTCHA
Enter the characters shown in the image.
By submitting this form, you agree to EmpowHER's terms of service and privacy policy