If you have had the same problem with your husband please get him to talk to you about what's going on. Maybe he has some health problem that he refuses to get checked out. My husband just passed on March 09. He had a massive heart attack. It was sudden. It was a great shock to me and everyone else. He appeared to be in perfect health except for having Emphysema.
He had to go for training for the Tactical Squad for the prison where he worked on Sunday. He passed away on Tuesday during PT.
I had no idea when I kissed him, hugged him good-bye and told him I loved him that would be the last time I would see him take a breath."
We were getting along great and had been for a long time. I had decided that I married him for better and for worse. I decided I loved him enough to deal with any issue that came about. I was thinking one day and I thought, "I didn't marry him to have sex. I married him because I loved him and wanted to be with him." I reached the point that if we made love it was great but if we didn't it would happen when he was ready. Who was I to "demand" sex? If it had been a situation whereas the woman didn't want to have sex everyone would be saying," It's your body and you have a right to say no." I came to a realization that there was no difference. I knew he loved me and that was all that mattered.
Just treasure what you have and try to be patient.
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If you have had the same problem with your husband please get him to talk to you about what's going on. Maybe he has some health problem that he refuses to get checked out. My husband just passed on March 09. He had a massive heart attack. It was sudden. It was a great shock to me and everyone else. He appeared to be in perfect health except for having Emphysema.
March 12, 2010 - 8:52amHe had to go for training for the Tactical Squad for the prison where he worked on Sunday. He passed away on Tuesday during PT.
I had no idea when I kissed him, hugged him good-bye and told him I loved him that would be the last time I would see him take a breath."
We were getting along great and had been for a long time. I had decided that I married him for better and for worse. I decided I loved him enough to deal with any issue that came about. I was thinking one day and I thought, "I didn't marry him to have sex. I married him because I loved him and wanted to be with him." I reached the point that if we made love it was great but if we didn't it would happen when he was ready. Who was I to "demand" sex? If it had been a situation whereas the woman didn't want to have sex everyone would be saying," It's your body and you have a right to say no." I came to a realization that there was no difference. I knew he loved me and that was all that mattered.
Just treasure what you have and try to be patient.
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