I'm still willing to bet, along with my boyfriend's opinion, that is definitely has SOME outlet, probably internet porn. Any man I've ever know who is in his prime, wants a lot of sex and nowadays, more and more men are becoming perfectly satisfied and even much happier with all the ease and variety they get on line. I would be willing to put my savings on the fact that he is not just asexual but is having lots of sex with Madam Palm and her 4 daughters on a regular basis. Have you asked him this?
If it is indeed true, ask him to quit looking at porn for a month and see what happens. If he is addicted, he probably won't be able to go without and will need councelling, if not, you may see your sex life improve!
I just know form experience, when I met my husband, I would cry night after nigth because he wouldn't have sex with me and finally found out that he was looking at porn every night and wanted to wnat me but couldn't as he was only able to be turned on by all the variety and extremeness of porn. He quit it eventually, after a huge struggle and now we have great sex as we focus our desire on each other and it works so well! Andmost men USE sex as a stress reliever, he almost always feels liek it now. There is nothing normal about a straight man who wants sex only once a month. Sorry, but I know this from experience. Many men now get addicted to the internet and all it's "charms" and sex with a "real" woman seems boring to them and a bit of a chore unless they stop with the porn and focus on you completely. Ask him and let us know what he says. My only other thought is that he may be gay.
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I'm still willing to bet, along with my boyfriend's opinion, that is definitely has SOME outlet, probably internet porn. Any man I've ever know who is in his prime, wants a lot of sex and nowadays, more and more men are becoming perfectly satisfied and even much happier with all the ease and variety they get on line. I would be willing to put my savings on the fact that he is not just asexual but is having lots of sex with Madam Palm and her 4 daughters on a regular basis. Have you asked him this?
March 10, 2010 - 11:34amIf it is indeed true, ask him to quit looking at porn for a month and see what happens. If he is addicted, he probably won't be able to go without and will need councelling, if not, you may see your sex life improve!
I just know form experience, when I met my husband, I would cry night after nigth because he wouldn't have sex with me and finally found out that he was looking at porn every night and wanted to wnat me but couldn't as he was only able to be turned on by all the variety and extremeness of porn. He quit it eventually, after a huge struggle and now we have great sex as we focus our desire on each other and it works so well! Andmost men USE sex as a stress reliever, he almost always feels liek it now. There is nothing normal about a straight man who wants sex only once a month. Sorry, but I know this from experience. Many men now get addicted to the internet and all it's "charms" and sex with a "real" woman seems boring to them and a bit of a chore unless they stop with the porn and focus on you completely. Ask him and let us know what he says. My only other thought is that he may be gay.
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