I'm so sorry this is the situation that you're in. May I ask how long you've been married?
Are you considering leaving him? Have you asked him if he would go to couples therapy with you?
You say you are living with your best friend, Anon, but best friends are generous, open and thoughtful. Best friends don't have to plead, scream or fight. There's something else going on here that won't change unless the two of you (and it MUST be the two of you) recognize it and try to change it.
Can you tell us a little more about what's going on here? Do you have any hope for change?
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Anon,
I'm so sorry this is the situation that you're in. May I ask how long you've been married?
Are you considering leaving him? Have you asked him if he would go to couples therapy with you?
You say you are living with your best friend, Anon, but best friends are generous, open and thoughtful. Best friends don't have to plead, scream or fight. There's something else going on here that won't change unless the two of you (and it MUST be the two of you) recognize it and try to change it.
Can you tell us a little more about what's going on here? Do you have any hope for change?
January 8, 2010 - 9:41amThis Comment
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