I first want to say how sorry I am that you are feeling so poorly about yourself, and the situation you are in. I have some advice and it may sound really crazy, or wrong, but I will tell you what worked for me. Both me and my fiance are Grad students, we find ourselves very stressed most of the time, because of this we were not having sex. I'm sure there are some insecurities with us as well, not to mention his family has been very open recently as to their lack of support for our marriage. I'm middle class... his family is NOT... so, We had a friend over for dinner, and he offered us marijuana. We don't smoke marijuana! However, that night, we thought well what the heck. After a while of smoking our friend left and we were on our own. We decided to go to bed and I think that the drug really helped us relax, and drop any inhibitions. It was really great! We had the best sex and the next day he said it felt like we really connected. I don't know but maybe the hippies had something right. I know marijuana might not be something you would even do, but maybe there is something else out there that is legal or fun that you can try. I would suggest not drinking booze.. because that will hinder his erection... I can hurt more then help. There are pills like xanex.. maybe that would relax him, or sneak him some pot brownies. I have only smoked 4 times in 29 years. However, I'm thinking about doing it again because it was such a good sexual experience for us.
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I first want to say how sorry I am that you are feeling so poorly about yourself, and the situation you are in. I have some advice and it may sound really crazy, or wrong, but I will tell you what worked for me. Both me and my fiance are Grad students, we find ourselves very stressed most of the time, because of this we were not having sex. I'm sure there are some insecurities with us as well, not to mention his family has been very open recently as to their lack of support for our marriage. I'm middle class... his family is NOT... so, We had a friend over for dinner, and he offered us marijuana. We don't smoke marijuana! However, that night, we thought well what the heck. After a while of smoking our friend left and we were on our own. We decided to go to bed and I think that the drug really helped us relax, and drop any inhibitions. It was really great! We had the best sex and the next day he said it felt like we really connected. I don't know but maybe the hippies had something right. I know marijuana might not be something you would even do, but maybe there is something else out there that is legal or fun that you can try. I would suggest not drinking booze.. because that will hinder his erection... I can hurt more then help. There are pills like xanex.. maybe that would relax him, or sneak him some pot brownies. I have only smoked 4 times in 29 years. However, I'm thinking about doing it again because it was such a good sexual experience for us.
December 18, 2009 - 12:44amThis Comment
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