Gosh - EEK Rhonda, Ive just read your previous messages etc and oh my goodness, we are talking about two completely different situations here. I was really aiming my response at the first first post that describes a husband moving his wifes hand away, and a depressed wife asking if there was any type of anti-viagra one can be prescribed to quash desire. Oh dear, I should have embelished more about my own situation. Married for almost 13 years now, a husband who has little to no libido, hasnt been unfaithful just cant be bothered with sex and doesnt find me sexy. I mean god, that has been hard enough to deal with but he wasn't a prize sh*t and having affairs all over the place - no wonder my reply didnt really resonate with you. We are in two different places altogther and like I said above, good for you for getting out. Your husband IS abusive and sounds like an utter waste of valuable oxygen. Cant help feeling sorry for his next victim! Despite all your wirried about money, no place to go, etc etc, you will re-emerge from this in the most fabulous way - you will be fine and probably so much healthier when you leave him that you wont even notice the inconvenience of things like money. Truly, all the very best of luck and keep strong!
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Gosh - EEK Rhonda, Ive just read your previous messages etc and oh my goodness, we are talking about two completely different situations here. I was really aiming my response at the first first post that describes a husband moving his wifes hand away, and a depressed wife asking if there was any type of anti-viagra one can be prescribed to quash desire. Oh dear, I should have embelished more about my own situation. Married for almost 13 years now, a husband who has little to no libido, hasnt been unfaithful just cant be bothered with sex and doesnt find me sexy. I mean god, that has been hard enough to deal with but he wasn't a prize sh*t and having affairs all over the place - no wonder my reply didnt really resonate with you. We are in two different places altogther and like I said above, good for you for getting out. Your husband IS abusive and sounds like an utter waste of valuable oxygen. Cant help feeling sorry for his next victim! Despite all your wirried about money, no place to go, etc etc, you will re-emerge from this in the most fabulous way - you will be fine and probably so much healthier when you leave him that you wont even notice the inconvenience of things like money. Truly, all the very best of luck and keep strong!
August 4, 2009 - 8:46amThis Comment
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