I am new to this site and can't believe I stumbled onto so many women suffering similarly as I am suffering. My husband started making excuses for avoiding sex as soon as we were married! In the last 5 years we have gone from having sex 4 or 5 times a week to 3 or 4 times a year and the intimacy is gone. My husband looks away from me when he kisses me (on the cheek or the corner of my mouth as he rarely kisses me on the mouth anymore). He only touches me when he wants sex and has rejected my advaces so regularly that I don't even try anymore.
I tried to accept him as a man with a low sex drive and I tried to learn to live this way until I caught him on craigslist exchanging emails with other women. He has also joined several singles sights, takes phone calls outside and "ogles" other women in public.
My husband swears he's never actually had sex with anyone els since we've been together and I'm not sure if I can believe him. He is a first responder, loves racing, skydiving and stars crap with someone at every event we attend. I am coming to realize that he is an adrinaline junky and itsthe chase that he gets off on. Once he caught me he lost interest. Ithink he loves me but he is severely emotionally retarded and I am divorcing him.
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I am new to this site and can't believe I stumbled onto so many women suffering similarly as I am suffering. My husband started making excuses for avoiding sex as soon as we were married! In the last 5 years we have gone from having sex 4 or 5 times a week to 3 or 4 times a year and the intimacy is gone. My husband looks away from me when he kisses me (on the cheek or the corner of my mouth as he rarely kisses me on the mouth anymore). He only touches me when he wants sex and has rejected my advaces so regularly that I don't even try anymore.
I tried to accept him as a man with a low sex drive and I tried to learn to live this way until I caught him on craigslist exchanging emails with other women. He has also joined several singles sights, takes phone calls outside and "ogles" other women in public.
My husband swears he's never actually had sex with anyone els since we've been together and I'm not sure if I can believe him. He is a first responder, loves racing, skydiving and stars crap with someone at every event we attend. I am coming to realize that he is an adrinaline junky and itsthe chase that he gets off on. Once he caught me he lost interest. Ithink he loves me but he is severely emotionally retarded and I am divorcing him.
July 12, 2009 - 9:21pmThis Comment
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