I guess you misunderstood something in the prior postings. We have "lived" together almost for about 18 months. We recently got married. Feb. 14, 2009, so actually it took me about 3 months into my marriage to decide to just deal with it from day to day. I made that decision about a month ago. We usually begin having a discussion about the issue and it seems to always turn into a senseless argument, whereas nothing actually gets accomplished because both of us end up saying mean spiteful things to each other which we don't really mean, which in the long run actually creates more problems.
He did finally admit a few days ago that sex doesn't even cross his mind most of the time. Now I need to figure out how to deal with this issue.
As for unhappiness, I'm happy most of the time but this does tend to still get to me from time to time even though I have learned how to deal with it.
As for the counseling, I've attempted to get him to agree to marriage counseling but he doesn't want to consider it.
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I guess you misunderstood something in the prior postings. We have "lived" together almost for about 18 months. We recently got married. Feb. 14, 2009, so actually it took me about 3 months into my marriage to decide to just deal with it from day to day. I made that decision about a month ago. We usually begin having a discussion about the issue and it seems to always turn into a senseless argument, whereas nothing actually gets accomplished because both of us end up saying mean spiteful things to each other which we don't really mean, which in the long run actually creates more problems.
He did finally admit a few days ago that sex doesn't even cross his mind most of the time. Now I need to figure out how to deal with this issue.
As for unhappiness, I'm happy most of the time but this does tend to still get to me from time to time even though I have learned how to deal with it.
As for the counseling, I've attempted to get him to agree to marriage counseling but he doesn't want to consider it.
June 19, 2009 - 1:22pmThis Comment
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