DiW, I can tell that you're a thoughtful, loving person and that this is really weighing on you. Is it bothering your husband as well?
If I read what you say correctly, this problem did exist before you got married, from time to time. I asked that because in some cases, a man seems to "see" his wife differently than he saw her when she was his girlfriend or fiance, and it can change some of the dynamics. But it doesn't sound as though this is the problem.
May I ask how old your husband is? I ask because there is such a thing as male menopause, when (just like women) their hormone levels change. A man with low testosterone levels may not be interested in sex as much as he was when his testosterone levels were higher.
Did any of Alison's comments or Alysia's comments hit home with you? Do you feel as though the two of you are having trouble communicating? Are you able to talk about this with him (when you are NOT in the bedroom)?
And would the two of you consider couples counseling?
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DiW, I can tell that you're a thoughtful, loving person and that this is really weighing on you. Is it bothering your husband as well?
If I read what you say correctly, this problem did exist before you got married, from time to time. I asked that because in some cases, a man seems to "see" his wife differently than he saw her when she was his girlfriend or fiance, and it can change some of the dynamics. But it doesn't sound as though this is the problem.
May I ask how old your husband is? I ask because there is such a thing as male menopause, when (just like women) their hormone levels change. A man with low testosterone levels may not be interested in sex as much as he was when his testosterone levels were higher.
Did any of Alison's comments or Alysia's comments hit home with you? Do you feel as though the two of you are having trouble communicating? Are you able to talk about this with him (when you are NOT in the bedroom)?
And would the two of you consider couples counseling?
March 25, 2009 - 8:53amThis Comment
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