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Hi, I am 37 and just got married, my husband is 46 . We have not known each other that long but it was love at first sight. He is a lovely man but I get the impression that he doesn't find me sexually attractive even before we got married. I dress nice and make myself look pretty for him but It's like he doesn't have the urge to touch me. I am not ugly or fat so i don't know what's wrong. When a couple first get together they usually want to have sex all the time but he was never like that . And when we do have sex I feel like a kid in a candy store all happy that he finally wants me. I know he has a lot of pain in his back, hips and legs but sometimes I feel he is using it as an excuse . When I ask him if he doesn't want me sexually he always says that he loves everything about me including sex. But why doesn't he show it. Why does he not make me feel sexually attractive . Plz help me . Laura