Ok I have done a lot of research on this subject because like most guys I find it highly erotic. My first girlfriend had the ability to ejaculate. And just to clarify this is not urine it does not smell salty nor taste that way either. She and i were together for about 4 years and I experienced this with her for the last 3 years of the relationship. I have since found that there are some keys to female ejaculation. The MOST important thing I learned is that The woman has to trust her partner sexually, and not just kind of trust him, it must be a complete trust.
Yes there is a mechanical technique to it as well. The most effective way to do this is for the man to use his finger(s) reaching deep inside with a "come hither" motion stimulating the G-spot, as he does this he should notice little bumps forming on the interior wall where the G-Spot is. Often he will not notice these bumps until after the woman has become more aroused. This is where the "super-stimulation" comes in. There are different ways to stimulate this spot, you can use a pumping motion with your fingers and at the end of every stroke your finger pushes on the spot. You can just rub the area with the end of your fingers. This is where you need to communicate with each other. Ask questions like does this feel good? how about if I go faster/slower? Do you like that? Clitoral stimulation is often helpful/needed as well. It will take some time to figure out what the woman needs from her man. The mans job through all of this is just to be present and this is important, not to be hung up on the outcome of female-ejaculation. Any pressure the man puts on the woman will just cause her to feel nevous and insecure. It's ok if she never ejaculates, this is about love an pleasure not about seeing her squirt.
That being said, in my experience ALL women are capable of ejaculating. Some squirt a lot, some just a little. But I cannot stress enough that you cannot just do the mechanical part and expect it to happen. You have to have that trust. And the man needs to be unattached to the outcome. Hope this helps to clarify the big mystery ;)
Oh and by the way, everyone wants to know if the ejaculation orgasm is better. The truth is I dont know. I've had women tell me yes it's 100 times better, and i've had women tell me that it's just a different kind of orgasm. So I guess it's like everything else in sex and relationships, it's different for every person. Oh and one more thing yes please do drink lots of water.
For anyone wanting to know more about Female ejaculation, I would reccomend the work of Steve Piccus and his White Tiger Tantra. A word of caution -- Steve Piccus is heavily involved in energy healing and is also a big name in the "pick up" community, that being said, I have found that he has done more to advance the knowledge of Female Ejaculation than any other person (my opinion only). He has worked with doctors and been involved in several studies concerning the subject.
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Ok I have done a lot of research on this subject because like most guys I find it highly erotic. My first girlfriend had the ability to ejaculate. And just to clarify this is not urine it does not smell salty nor taste that way either. She and i were together for about 4 years and I experienced this with her for the last 3 years of the relationship. I have since found that there are some keys to female ejaculation. The MOST important thing I learned is that The woman has to trust her partner sexually, and not just kind of trust him, it must be a complete trust.
Yes there is a mechanical technique to it as well. The most effective way to do this is for the man to use his finger(s) reaching deep inside with a "come hither" motion stimulating the G-spot, as he does this he should notice little bumps forming on the interior wall where the G-Spot is. Often he will not notice these bumps until after the woman has become more aroused. This is where the "super-stimulation" comes in. There are different ways to stimulate this spot, you can use a pumping motion with your fingers and at the end of every stroke your finger pushes on the spot. You can just rub the area with the end of your fingers. This is where you need to communicate with each other. Ask questions like does this feel good? how about if I go faster/slower? Do you like that? Clitoral stimulation is often helpful/needed as well. It will take some time to figure out what the woman needs from her man. The mans job through all of this is just to be present and this is important, not to be hung up on the outcome of female-ejaculation. Any pressure the man puts on the woman will just cause her to feel nevous and insecure. It's ok if she never ejaculates, this is about love an pleasure not about seeing her squirt.
That being said, in my experience ALL women are capable of ejaculating. Some squirt a lot, some just a little. But I cannot stress enough that you cannot just do the mechanical part and expect it to happen. You have to have that trust. And the man needs to be unattached to the outcome. Hope this helps to clarify the big mystery ;)
Oh and by the way, everyone wants to know if the ejaculation orgasm is better. The truth is I dont know. I've had women tell me yes it's 100 times better, and i've had women tell me that it's just a different kind of orgasm. So I guess it's like everything else in sex and relationships, it's different for every person. Oh and one more thing yes please do drink lots of water.
For anyone wanting to know more about Female ejaculation, I would reccomend the work of Steve Piccus and his White Tiger Tantra. A word of caution -- Steve Piccus is heavily involved in energy healing and is also a big name in the "pick up" community, that being said, I have found that he has done more to advance the knowledge of Female Ejaculation than any other person (my opinion only). He has worked with doctors and been involved in several studies concerning the subject.
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