This is the best website for genital herpes (called "herpes simplex virus, or HSV):
American Social Health Association (ASHA).
You can do a lot of things to help reduce symptoms and breakouts. There is no cure, but there is very effective treatment options!
Have you been diagnosed with genital herpes?
There are several treatment options that you can read about here. Have you tried any of the prescription antiviral medications? There is also medication for the oral herpes that can suppress breakouts.