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Hi There,I'm in the same position as you,My husband became wheelchair bound nearly 9yrs ago from a condition that he got which affected his nervous system.I have been unhappy for probably 8yrs and have stayed for our kids sake.But his negativity and no communication and feeling sorry for himself I am worn out.He did go to uni for 5yrs but when he finished I said you need to get a job(help me provide for the kids...I can only work part-time due to my pension)His reply to that was who would hire me??This made me furious...I would of called it then but I was taking my daughter overseas in few months so i let it go....He is disabled he is not dead....Then when we returned from our trip I was telling him what a fantastic time we had and all he could say was Arn't you lucky!!I was on such a high...but he made me feel like crap...whenever i get happy he manages to bring me down...so my mental health is now suffering.He is definitely depressed,but i am not responsible for his happiness...I am responsible for my happiness so this week I will be telling him i want a separation...I'm worried about my kids,They won't understand and I worry they will hate me.But I want to be a happy mum and not depressed a one!