Your husband loves you and it sounds like you have a loving and positive relationship. It would break his heart if he was to lose you because you made the decision he didn't want to be there - that is your fear and projection, not his position it doesn't sound like.
I live with a chronically ill man. I don't begrudge his illness or even how it sometimes comes out -- my problem is he doesn't take responsibility, isn't proactive about caring for his condition, and wants a magic pill to fix everything. IF he was showing up to deal as best he could, that would be more than enough.
It is a gift that you have each other, whatever is going on. Fear and projection take us down. Keep the lines of communication open with your husband and let love connect you both and be your guide.
Life is full of challenges, if you have someone who sees and loves you, treasure it!! Yes, sick people deserve love and you have someone who knows that.
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Your husband loves you and it sounds like you have a loving and positive relationship. It would break his heart if he was to lose you because you made the decision he didn't want to be there - that is your fear and projection, not his position it doesn't sound like.
I live with a chronically ill man. I don't begrudge his illness or even how it sometimes comes out -- my problem is he doesn't take responsibility, isn't proactive about caring for his condition, and wants a magic pill to fix everything. IF he was showing up to deal as best he could, that would be more than enough.
It is a gift that you have each other, whatever is going on. Fear and projection take us down. Keep the lines of communication open with your husband and let love connect you both and be your guide.
Life is full of challenges, if you have someone who sees and loves you, treasure it!! Yes, sick people deserve love and you have someone who knows that.
January 21, 2017 - 9:28amThis Comment
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